The first thing you need to do is find out that she is really pregnant and learn about your options. We provide confidential and complimentary pregnancy tests along with many support services. Our center exists to help both of you come to an informed decision. To help her understand your support, come with her for the pregnancy test. She has more to lose in this pregnancy than you do because it will affect her physically. If she truly is pregnant then she is already being overwhelmed by hormone changes. Having your physical support will reassure her that you care.

You may not realize this but abortion has many risks to the woman— emotional, psychological and physical. While you may not experience the abortion physically, abortion can affect you as well. If you care about this woman in your life, you will want to protect her from harm. You need to know the physical risks of abortion.

Our center can help you in a variety of ways should she actually be pregnant. Our support services include maternity and baby clothes, baby furniture, housing referrals, medical insurance referrals, prenatal care referrals, parenting classes, etc. You won’t be alone in supporting her in this pregnancy. We can help you share this truth with both families and explore all your options. Learn more about what a preborn child looks like on our site.

Another interesting thing about abortion that we have learned from people that made this choice is that most couples break up soon afterwards. Abortion doesn’t seem to be the glue that holds a relationship together. Feelings of betrayal and hurt, compounded with the grief over the loss that results from abortion, can separate two hearts forever. If you care about this woman, encourage her not to abort.